Grrr I need! Sex!!!
A message from a guy who I had my first one night stand with. He had a girlfriend at the time. Now he has a fiancée.
Ha, I get plenty 
I teased back.
The problem, his fiancee has suddenly gone of sex and he didn’t know why. After I suggested ever reason that came to mind and even..
Maybe she’s lost her mojo?
Maybe, have I?
I don’t think you ever will!
Would you fuck me? Again?
Metaphorically, or you just desperate for sex?
Bit of both, but having sex with you wouldn’t be desperate
So you’d cheat on her?
No but she obv doesn’t want me
I’m sure she does, seems as she’s agreed to marry you!
She has changed her mind. She keeps saying how we have nothing in common.
That would be it then
He says he loves her, so I told him to fight for her then he knows he at least tried. ‘True’, he said, ‘I still wanna see you naked again though. You’re hot as hell!’. I swear some men just aren’t worth helping. This then went on to him asking for photos. No chance. This is probably why your fiancee doesn’t think you’re a good match! ‘Why?’ Seriously, after asking me for sex and naked photos, he asked why?!
He said he loves her, even though she’s controlling and wont let him see his friends or drink. Is love enough? He said he hopes it is.
Why did you cheat on your last girlfriend?
Because I wanted you. I liked you a lot, I still do. When I was single I was trying to get you to go on a date with me but you didn’t tell me when you were up north 
You never spoke to me after we had sex. You just randomly text me a year after apologising
I’m sorry about that but I was very confused at the time. I was wrong to fo what I did and I did lose a very good chance of finding someone who given time could have meant a lot to me I’m a compulsive fuck up Have you not got the idea that I like you yet? I have done since I first met you
I’d been in a controlling relationship before and stuck in it because I loved the guy. But that really isn’t enough, so I explained this. How you can love others, who aren’t controlling and be happy in a relationship.
Why do you have to be so bloody right all the time? See this is why I want you! Grrr. You always sort me out and seem to be willing to listen 
It’s up to you to sort yourself out
And while doing it make me hard
You have serious issues
I left it at that. But seriously, come on men! Are that actually any of you that are decent out there?
This is the guy who started the one night stands, and the cheating. Killed two birds with one stone. I wonder if I had never slept with him if I wouldn’t have gone onto have so many more and be in the situation I am in now. Probably inevitable anyway. Fate.
Most guys will say ANYTHING to get into your pants. That’s just life I’m afraid. In the olden days we used to just club you over the head and drag you back to the cave, thats frowned on now days though
Not all men are like that. I wouldn’t dream of trying to get into a girls knickers ‘just for sex’. Ive never had a one night stand and the thought of it doesn’t interest me. I love my Princess more than anything and wouldn’t dream of cheating on her. But as Wilvo says, unfortunately not all men think like that. xx
Wow isn’t this a relative cornucopia of sexual idiocy and backward thinking. I think it’s pretty obvious this guy is A) has no idea how to seduce someone and B) doesn’t really understand the relationship of cause and effect (well any relationship evidently).
I’m willing to guess this guy is either your age or slightly older – so 20-23. I’m also willing to bet that those two will never get married. Simply put: he’s not trust worthy and she’s looking for a way out.
So instead I’ll state that sex is not a commodity and perpetuating the myth that men will do anything for sex tacitly implies that women don’t enjoy sex or somehow men enjoy it more; two things that clearly don’t correlate with a healthy sex life.
Wanting to have sex is a biological need. It really is the whole point we are here; to perpetuate our own genetic lineage. Everything else is built upon this basic premise: from one night stands; to comfort dating. Human beings are hard wired to want to have sex; both men and women.
Therefore in my opinion sex (and the desire for it) is a given and should be beyond judgement. However there are of course certain ways to search for it that are less damaging than others. Searching for it from someone’s partner or whilst you are someone’s partner being just two of the more inappropriate ways. Surely the rule should be simple: If you want sex from someone else then you shouldn’t be with the person that you’re with. Anything else is just a rationalisation.
He sounds… a bit daft.
That cartoon is funny though.
I don’t think all men are like this. I believe most people want to do the right thing. He sounds like he has some issues with monogomy and it may be a good idea for him to hold off on the marriage until he sorts out a few things.
God help the girl if she does marry him, especially if she’s gone off sex already! He definitely has issues!x
Reminds me of my ex – every time there was a rift between us he’d go flirt with someone else and try to get into bed with them to make himself feel better. Even down to the way it’s worded! He was a complete slime though.
There are decent men out there – nobody’s perfect though!